THE WORLD IS YOURS…STEP UP AND CLAIM IT!

**Tips on using assertiveness to get everything you always wanted in life, including promotions, wealth, fame and incredible relationships.

There are many people today who are outrageously successful, wealthy, happy, living an abundant life. Are you among them? Perhaps you wish that you too had more prosperity, joy, love and peace in your life. Think about the way you look at successful people. Does it seem to you they command more respect, get what they want, appear happier? Do you believe they are just luckier than you are? Do you suspect they know something you don’t know? What is their secret?

There is no secret to living a fantastic life!

Fulfill your heart’s desire and gain monumental respect

by knowing what you want and asking for it.

**It’s just that simple!

"If a great life is so simple, why am I still in this rut?"

To lead a highly successful life all you need are a few basic skills.

Wealthy, high profile friends and relatives are not necessary to create a successful life. If you keep hoping your lucky ship will sail in, you’ll be waiting a long time. Is a lifetime long enough?

It is pointless to sit around and wait for something or someone to hand you success on a silver platter.

It is just not going to happen.

It is up to you to orchestrate the kind of life you imagine for yourself.

STAND UP. SHAKE OFF THOSE BAD FEELINGS. START MAKING POSITIVE CHANGES IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW!

**Do not depend on luck or other people to create your successes.

Develop the ability to claim everything you want for yourself.

  • Think about what your needs and wants are.
  • Decide how you want to feel.
  • Determine how you want others to treat you.
  • Develop a value system.

Then tell the world. Refuse to be shy!

It is your responsibility to tell others who you are what you want and how you are feeling.

**People require that information if they are to know who you are and how to treat you.

Start today to change the way you interact in both personal and professional relationships.

ASSERTIVENESS is a powerful communication skill that you can, and must, learn in order to achieve the life you want.

Assertiveness = Asking for what you want, standing up for yourself, telling others how you feel in a positive way without trying to manipulate or coerce them into agreement.

What a relief! You no longer have to worry about what other people think or constantly put their feelings ahead of yours. Being assertive allows you to communicate in a positive and healthy manner. You are taking care of your own needs. That is your job! You know that people do not have to agree with what you say. You also know that it is not up to you to change their minds. That is the key to assertiveness.

Just imagine how visibly competent you look standing tall and clearly stating your position.

The pressure is off when you use assertiveness skills. If you practice being assertive, you develop the confidence to say what you truly believe. You will stay committed to your opinion no matter what the reaction from outside sources. That is powerful!

As your competence increases so does your confidence.

Family, friends and co-workers will respect you as someone who consistently (and fairly) speaks up, standing behind what you say.

COMPETENCE = RESPECT= SUCCESS

Assertiveness is easy to learn. There are only three steps involved!

  1. IDENTIFY YOUR THOUGHTS, FEELINGS AND MOTIVES
  • Think about what you want, need and are feeling.
  • You need to be clear in what you are saying. This is especially true when someone challenges your opinion.
  • If you consistently change your mind when pressured, people will use this to manipulate you.
  1. STATE YOUR POSITION/OPINION OUT LOUD
  • Say what you want without trying to convince or manipulate anyone. Remind yourself it does not matter if they agree with you.
  • State your position in a positive manner. Use only "I" statements.
  • Be aware if you are taking an aggressive stance. No yelling, slamming or "you" statements (no finger pointing either).
  • Be firm – not forceful. Repeat yourself if necessary.
  1. LISTEN
  • How is the other person responding to your statement? Repeat your position if it is misinterpreted.
  • Are they challenging your position? If so, that is okay. They are entitled to their point of view.
  • Be certain you comprehend what the other person is saying. Learn to clarify.
  • Be mindful of aggression (this is the yelling, slamming, "you" statements and finger pointing mentioned above).

There is power and knowledge in developing positive communication techniques.

To have healthy communication, you must be able to identify aggression.

**Otherwise, you will find your self continually involved in toxic conversations.

INCREASE YOUR CONFIDENCE, SELF-ESTEEM AND PERSONAL POWER. TAKE COMMAND OF HOW YOU SPEAK. IDENTIFY THE AGGRESSION IN OTHER PEOPLE’S WORDS.

  • Create incredible relationships by setting boundaries of behavior for yourself and others.

  • Stop the screaming matches! Choose to no longer be aggressive and participate in aggressive situations.
  • Do not let others manipulate you with their aggression. Stay committed to your position and learn how to end the conversation if necessary.
  • Boost your confidence by using assertiveness skills to take care of yourself in any situation.
  • Never be afraid to speak up again! Know that you have what it takes (assertiveness and self-confidence) to verbalize your beliefs.
  • Learn to say "NO". Make yourself priority #1.

Reduce confrontation and manipulation in your life by consistently stating your thoughts and committing to stand by them even under pressure.

**People become clear in the way they treat you, because you become clear in identifying the type of person you are.

When you start thinking about your needs and how you want others to treat you, you are developing your personality and character.

People will respect you because your behaviors are honest and consistent.

Keeping silent when you have a need to express yourself causes stress and anxiety. This eventually comes out in the form of aggression or sadness.

Assertiveness can help you release those suppressed emotions.

TAKE CONTROL. STAND UP STRAIGHT. SPEAK UP!

It feels awesome to tell someone how you are feeling without being scared.

You no longer have to fear rejection. You can take care of yourself if someone disagrees with you.

**You will begin to reevaluate relationships. You will lose interest in being with people who consistently try to manipulate and control you.

To be assertive you need to understand and use certain skills.

Nancy McFadden, M.A. has developed an informative two hour seminar entitled, "Being Assertive Not Aggressive".

Available on two cassette tapes or CD, Nancy explains the principles behind assertiveness and aggressiveness in such a way that they can easily be understood and immediately applied to create success.

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ASSERTIVENESS WILL IMPROVE YOUR LIFE.

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Nancy McFadden, M.A. has spent over 15 years in the motivational and self-help field researching and developing techniques aimed at dramatically increasing your assertiveness. As a psychotherapist, university instructor and lecturer, Nancy has helped thousands transform their lives using assertiveness skills and other powerful methods of communication.

We all need encouragement to begin new behaviors.

"Being Assertive Not Aggressive" is packed with valuable information regarding the power of communication. It contains step-by-step instructions to learn assertiveness and includes the personal encouragement you require.

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Listen to Nancy’s seminars on a daily basis and begin to practice assertiveness techniques until you become skilled with them.

Find time to listen while driving in the car, walking the dog, commuting to/from work, preparing dinner, waiting for appointments… You will be surprised how convenient it is. Your entire family can benefit from this life skill.

START MAKING POSITIVE CHANGES IN YOUR LIFE!

  • Ask for that job you have always wanted.
  • Make a date with the man/woman of your dreams.
  • Earn the respect of your co-workers.
  • Become a leader at home, in school, on the job.
  • State your position without being afraid of rejection or hostile emotions from others.
  • Develop incredible relationships…

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